can i ask why you're so opposed to staying onsite? and where did you stay? i'm just curious as i've never heard that opinion before
Do you mean where on site? The Dolphin...or was it the Swan? We did it in 2017 and again in 2018. They're nice hotels, don't get me wrong, very nice. But it's just not for us.
Here's the list of things that for us make offsite so much better. I completely recognize they may be unique to us.
1. Cost. As a family of 5, we'd pay double the cost to stay onsite. At a minimum. We stay offsite for under $100/night all in.
2. Space. Having 3-4 bedrooms is awesome. Everyone gets to have their own personal space. We'd kill each other being stuck in one room for a week or more. I can't stress enough how wonderful having all the amenities of home is. It's so nice to sit in the family room and relax after a nice day in the parks...can't do that in a hotel room.
3. Full kitchen. We bring our own food into the parks for a variety of reasons. We do buy treats/desserts on property and maybe once or twice per week eat out...either at QS or off property. Even with that, we spend maybe $700/week to feed our entire family. We don't slave in the kitchen doing heavy cooking, we're on vacation so we have no interest in that. We do very simple and easy things. Cleaning dishes? That's what the dishwasher is for.
It's so easy.
4. On site laundry. Unless you pack heavy, if you're staying for a week or more (our summer trips are over 2 weeks long) you're going to need to do laundry. Having it in our rental is fabulous. Throw a load in while we're eating dinner, toss it in the drier when we head to the pool for a swim. Done.
5. We think the whole bubble thing is silly. For us, our "bubble" is more than just WDW property. We go to a WDW park every day we're there, we don't believe in "resort days". At the same time, we don't commando tour. So we may spend a morning in the parks and hit gift shops or Dunkin' Donuts at night. One Xmas, we went to Gaylord Palms to check out their display. We love doing those things. It just expands our vacation. We'll even take a day and go to Daytona Beach and then maybe Disney Springs at night.
6. We insist on having our own car. I couldn't imagine having to rely on WDW buses. No way. We love being able to go where we want, when we want, in our own car. I love to drive, so I don't consider it a chore at all...rather a pleasure. Depending on where we stay and what park we're going to, we can get to our rental just as fast as people onsite anyway, if not faster. It's anywhere from 25-50 minutes door to door, relatively speaking. I know you can have a car onsite too, but having it offsite is just an added bonus.
Those are the big things. The places we stay at all have nice pool complexes, activities, etc... So for us, it's just the only way to go.