Not sure what you mean by your daughter said no way.
Soooo Okay... sorry... Our trip was DH and myself, our DD, DSIL, and our Sweet grandson ( 6 years old)... The plan was to take him to see the Mummy's and Dino's at the Met which he is on and on about, the Bronx's Zoo, See the Rockettes Christmas Special, and the Lion King/or Aladdin something that he would like to see...and some other touristy attractions...
So Covid hit last year, and we shelved our plans, and decided to try for the week before Thanksgiving, or the week after of 2021...
They were over for dinner, and I brought it up and she said that they did not want to go any more. Her reasons, first off was safety and they both felt that it's not safe.
They had been over when our friends who went to college in and go to NYC like 3 or 4 times a year, where regaling us with their trip, and both of them saying they completely felt unsafe the whole time, and left 2 days early because of the situations that occurred, they were sitting in the park, drinking Starbucks, and a group of young people approached them, yelling at them to put on their mask, and harassing them and saying some pretty awful and scary things to them, they got up walked across the street to a bodega, and the man inside let them in, then locked the door, he said I would call the cops, but their aren't enough of them around any more, and told them to stay out of the park it is completely not safe. They had a issue with group of homeless people, and At the hotel they would not allow them to stand outside and wait for Uber, the doorman said its not safe for you to stand out there.
Then
Her friend from work who is from Manhattan, had been there visiting her parents for the first time since covid, and them getting to see the newest grandbaby and said that this guy just came up, and stole their stroller right on the sidewalk in front of her parents building, with a doorman, she was holding their daughter and her DH had the 3 year old, and the diaper bag.... he walked up and said I'm taking the stroller, and shoved the husband, who was trying to protect the 3 year old... the doorman step in front of my DD's friend and the new baby, while they did not see a weapon, he was menacing, and acting like he was on something... The DH said just give it to him, and the guy took the stroller. Once they were all back inside the doorman called the police, and they said if no-one was hurt they really could not do anything, and took somewhat of a report over the phone, not enough police... The doorman told them right around the Met was okay, but don't go into the park, and be back before it gets dark... My DD's friend told her not to waste the money it's not worth it.... She said that they completely felt unsafe the whole time, and now she wants her parents to come stay with them, her dad was robbed last week at gun point leaving the grocery store.
Then all the videos of flooding in the subways, rats, trash, and human waste on the sidewalk, the issue with the homeless.
So that's where the "No Way" came from...