reecejackox
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2017
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Yes, just so. In March of 2020, right after things exploded and governments and private enterprises were all scrambling to develop safety protocols, I had a jarring experience with a cashier at my regular store where I shop almost daily for years. I had just come back from vacation (was recalled when the borders closed) and had an uncharacteristically large amount of cash. I bought groceries (careful not to fall prey to the urge to hoard) and decided to pay with cash. The cashier's look was pure terror - I was so taken aback. Then she went on the intercom and paged her manager and whether or not she realized she was still broadcasting, shrieked "I have to wash my hands, I need to wash them right now, she made me touch cash, I just touched her cash...". She was in tears, the other shoppers were gobsmacked and I was dumbfounded and embarrassed. It was literally the last time I tried to pass cash for over a year.During covid, I went in to do some shopping and got yelled at by a lady because I picked up an item, read the ingredients and put it back. I have food allergies and need to see if it is safe for me to eat. It had something in it that I can't eat, so I placed it back on the shelf.
Suddenly, from behind me I hear, "HEY you can't put that back! You TOUCHED that and now you're putting it back???? You don't even have gloves on!!" I was so shocked I could barely speak. I was so embarrassed by her outburst and could feel other people looking at us. I told her I just cleaned my hands (it was true, I had just used hand sanitizer right when I walked in.) so according to her, I should have bought the item, even though I did not want it, just because I touched it. Not to mention many others probably touched it as well like the person who stocked the shelf, other customers etc. This was the beginning of the pandemic. Man things were strange back then.
I had a similar incident at a deli when I turned around to get some oranges right behind the deli while I was waiting for my number to be called. Guy rushed ahead of me and when I said something he went off on me like your lady did. I gave it back to him at the time, and it actually became a classic story in my family. Today, though, I don’t think I would. I’d just let him go. The level of crazy in people has increased exponentially since then, unfortunately, and it’s just not worth it.This one happened about 3 months ago. Was shopping at our regular local grocery store. I got in line to check out in what appeared to be the shortest check out line. Saw an older middle aged woman with her teenage daughter about 10 feet away. They appeared to be making choices on batteries.
Apparently I was wrong in my assessment because the insane woman seriously lost her mind over me getting in line.
She screamed at the top of her lungs at me, “ExCUSE mEEEEE! ARE YOU BLIND OR SOMETHING? WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU? I WAS HERE FIRST!”
I calmly replied with, “Oh! I’m sorry! I didn’t know you were in line! Sorry about that!” While I moved over one check out row.
That wasn’t good enough. She shouted back, “OH GIVE ME A BREAK! YOU DID THAT ON PURPOSE!”
She was so loud that people were starting to stare and were gathering to watch. I decided that maybe she was partially deaf or something (nah, not really, but was in the mood now of “Hell with it, I’m gonna match her on volume and tone”), so I shouted back, “GET A GRIP! YOU WERE 10 FEET AWAY AND NO…IT WAS NOT OBVIOUS THAT YOU WERE IN LINE. IF YOU ARE ACTUALLY IN LINE, YOU MIGHT WANT TO CONSIDER ACTUALLY STANDING BEHIND THE PERSON YOU’RE IN LINE BEHIND…YOU KNOW…SO IDIOTS LIKE ME DON’T MISUNDERSTAND.”
Her teenager daughter looked like she wanted the earth to swallow her up.
Not to be outdone, Ms Crazy Lady had to have the last word and shouted, “YOU ARE A REAL PIECE OF WORK! YOU KNOW THAT?”
…to which, I replied back with all the passive-aggression of a sorority girl with, “OH THANKS! SAME TO YOU! Have a GREAT day!”
She spent the rest of her shopping experience whisper shouting to her teenager and wildly gesticulating. Meanwhile, the lady in line in front of me gave me a knowing “look”, nodded over in Crazy Lady’s direction, rolled her eyes, and then smiled.
Remember during the pandemic when there were “arrows” in grocery aisles? God forbid you went the wrong way! I got yelled at a few times when I mistakenly went the wrong way.
Yup those were there when I worked at a grocery store. My manager was a stickler for the rules and would lecture us if we didn't make people follow those arrows. I remember the day the mask mandate went away in our state, my manager made a coworker and I remove all of those arrows from the store.Remember during the pandemic when there were “arrows” in grocery aisles? God forbid you went the wrong way! I got yelled at a few times when I mistakenly went the wrong way.
Not in our area! It was like the aisle monitors in high school all over again, LOL. I got evil looks from people even though I had a mask on and stopped letting them pass if the wanted to! I had one person stop, gasp, and look at me like a mass murderer until I passed (I know on the wrong side again. I was waiting to get arrested) That was a stupid rule and alot of people didn't do it, but the ones who did? Look Out!I remember those! But people didn't really seem to pay much attention to them after a few weeks. There wasn't anybody around to enforce it so it always seemed more of a guideline than a rule.