1. Enjoy family time. If you possibly can, leave the electronics at home. If you have to bring them then lock them in the safe not to be used again until you leave the ship to head home. I have a 14 year old and a 12 (soon to be 13 year old) and they leave their tablets,phones etc at home. This helps with having to bring all the charging cables, headphones etc that go with that and keeping track of everything too. My husband's main reason for taking cruises is to NOT have his phone on him for 4 to 7 days. We own a plumbing company and up until our first cruise in 2013 always had his phone on him. Now, he leaves it on the dresser at home and our guys are in charge while we are gone.
2. Definitely wear or pack swim suits, flip flops and have sunscreen handy. Especially if you are sailing between April and September. Tropical sun is much different than any other. Reapply that sunscreen frequently.
Also, a little aloe vera gel never hurt anyone. Be sure to purchase this at home to save some money. Costco, Target, Walmart etc. have sunscreen for a much more reasonable price than in a port or on the ship. You need to have enough for your entire family to be covered for the length of the trip. One bad sunburn is all it will take to dampen the fun factor.
3. This is the time to experiment with trying new foods that you would never cook for yourself or try at home in a restaurant. My kids choose one appetizer, entrée, and dessert every evening that they would never have ordered at home. If they don't like it, then our awesome servers bring them the old tried and true dishes they know they like. No harm no foul.
And when in doubt about dessert...get a Mickey Bar. They are my 49 year old and 12 year olds favorite go to dessert.
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4. Walk and talk on Deck 4 around the ship. Stop and play shuffleboard and sit in the amazingly comfortable loungers. Check out the minigolf course on the top deck and watch the wake behind you. Look for dolphins jumping the wake or playing beside the ship.
So beautiful and calming.
5. If you have a verandah, sit out there and read a book if you like to read ( a real one from the library or store will do the trick nicely). Or sit and have an evening drink as you watch the sun set into the horizon and the light change on the water. Count your blessings and appreciate the time you have with your family.
6. Finally, if you do an excursion (and you don't have to feel obligated to do so) choose something that shares the history of where you are visiting and the culture. It is so much more interesting to walk and be in the moment of a place that so many will only read about. Drink in the culture and enjoy every moment. Forget the cost for a little while. What you are enjoying is priceless and special.
If you DON'T do an excursion, relax on the ship and enjoy what it has to offer as well. Cast members and crew seem to be willing to talk more if they are not as busy and if show an interest in them. When we were in Jamaica the first time, one of our servers was from there and shared firsthand experiences at dinner every night. She was amazing.
Our room hostess was also from Jamaica and shared culture with the kids. Priceless.
Overall, have a fantastic time and be in the moment. You will definitely want to book another, and another.