Once again, WHAT school bus are you riding? Comparing a 10 minute school bus ride, to a 2+ more hours airplane ride is insane.
Like I said before I will take personal responsibility to have my 12 year old with ear problems and my scared to death 6 year old sit with me and pay the fee, but my kids riding a bus is not comparable to an airplane ride. So no I wont ask you to move your seat, but this stinks that SW changed this bc before I could control my seating arrangement by checking in at the 24 hr mark. If I could control that with the EB fee, then I would do that too but unfortnately the way SW structured this policy there is no guarantee of anything.
So I went from flying an airline that had decent times,direct flights, reasonable prices, nice customer service, wasnt USAir (out of PHL is a complete nightmare) to now struggling with how to book my airfare. SW was a nice alternative to USAir bc many of the other airlines out of PHL involve connections and I do no want to have to subject my child and his ears to multiple landings if I can help it.
I think what you are hearing out of parents is the frustration of having our choices of airfare limited. All we (or maybe I should say I) want is to sit with our kids. Under the old policy I was able to make this happen. Now I feel like my chocies are limited and I have less control. I think that scenario is frustrating for most people.
See, I totally understand your frustration. With EB you don't know how many people have signed up before you (or how many full-fare people will sign up after you and get bumped in front of you). I can see why, as a mom with kids, you'd have issues with that.
The people that some of us are getting frustrated with are those that keep saying that they will refuse to pay the EB fee but still expect people to move so that they can sit beside their children (over the age of family boarding). These people are NOT doing every that they can to ensure that they sit beside their children (i.e. these people are not you), but they do expect others to go out of their way to ensure that it happens.
Hopefully as SW gets more experience with EB, things become more transparent (or get adapted) and your worries (which are totally understandable) can be abated. For now, you are going to have to choose the lesser evil - SW with the possibility of getting split up, US Airways, a flight with connections, or a different airport. Admittedly, having to choose the lesser evil isn't a great system and your frustrations make sense.