And this is why I haven't been on these boards in so long...here come the insults!! My goodness, the OP was simply presenting her situation and asking for advice. We have ALL questioned whether or not something was right...and that does not warrant the label of "helicopter parent". How about "concerned parent", or "unsure parent"? Please...I find people these days are so darned judgmental. OP asked for what YOU would do, not to be ridiculed or labeled. Had she said she DID follow the bus, was planning to follow the bus, wasn't going to let her child go, or, God forbid, start threatening lawsuits, questioning principals, etc., THEN, you can call her names. Otherwise, it's unfair. OP - I hope you'll do what you feel is best, given so many of the well-intended advice and situations on your thread.