I wasn't saying that everyone wanted their kids to move up, or even down. I was just wondering as it has become a focus on each and every cruise. I do not have kids of my own, and when I'm not onboard as a YA Counselor I work as a teacher at a school for 3-14 year olds. Obviously these kids are in different classrooms but they share a play space and it seems to work well. I wasn't criticising anyone I simply wondered. I cannot help to effect change without asking what the issues are. Once we are aware of things then we can start to discuss with senior management to change things.