My kids don't care for their cars that we provided to them. They have to be really obnoxious for them to run through a car wash. I didn't wash or wax the cars that my parents provided to me when I was that age.What about car maintenance stuff? Our local car wash does packages for 9.95 the first month. It will help keep her car clean from salt.
I DID start to take care of them when I bought the car myself.
Just something to think about.