CamilaGS
Camys - a WDW lover and Pottermaniac!
- Joined
- Jan 30, 2016
Well, I didn´t read the whole thread, but I´ll give my two cents.
I´m not exactly the target of the ad: I´m fat, somewhat lazy and also married to another woman. So I can´t check any boxes relating to the woman in the ad. lol
Also, I don´t think that the ad depicts a husband that thinks the wife is fat and should get exercise and also, I think the wife in the ad loved the bike (I do agree with the people that says she has a crazed look as if she´s being held hostage - the acting is hilariously bad and the whole "instagramming" set is kinda creepy).
But - although I only had a few marketing classes in Uni and I can´t really speak as a professional - I believe that marketing is not about depicting what normal people do in a normal setting in a normal life. Marketing is about telling you what you should want and how you should behave. My beef with the ad (and yes, I´m also taking into account my lifelong struggle with my weight and body image) is that it shows that you should want a Peloton for Christmas and that you should want to get fit and thin (let´s not kid ourselves that thinness isn´t almost always linked to health, I´ve spent a whole life listening to people "caring about my health") and that you should think it´s an amazing gift from your husband, just like the girl in the ad.
I´ve always had problems with my body image. Even at my thinnest, I still thought I was fat as a cow. Me and my wife, we try to encourage ourselves to eat healthier, to try and exercise, and we just got a (cheaper) bike to try and do more exercise at home. If she had given me the bike as a gift, after I told her I wanted to get one and try to workout more, I would definitely not be offended. But this is an ad. It´s not a person appreciative of my feelings and issues - it´s something that fuels a society that views me as unhealthy and that the best gift I could get for Christmas is something that will make me lose weight.
Also, I´m well aware that beauty standards are more heavily bestowed upon women (it doesn´t mean men don´t suffer from it, my male cousin has also body issues and is known to be on a seesaw of dieting and bingeing his whole life). I know a lot of women that are told by their bfs or husbands (and also their mothers, their gfs and wives too) that they look fat and should lose weight - one of my best friends ended her engagement because her fiancé said he would only marry her if she lost the weight she gained since they started dating, no kidding. So maybe if some people are "reading too much into it" is because it resonates with what they go through all of their lives. That can be said about the people that saw this ad and had a problem with it and the same can be said about people that complain about sexism in general, or racism, or homophobia. Maybe you don´t see it through your lenses, but it doesn´t mean what they see through theirs is wrong just because it´s different from yours.
And as a final statement, I must say: damn, that bike is expensive.
I´m not exactly the target of the ad: I´m fat, somewhat lazy and also married to another woman. So I can´t check any boxes relating to the woman in the ad. lol
Also, I don´t think that the ad depicts a husband that thinks the wife is fat and should get exercise and also, I think the wife in the ad loved the bike (I do agree with the people that says she has a crazed look as if she´s being held hostage - the acting is hilariously bad and the whole "instagramming" set is kinda creepy).
But - although I only had a few marketing classes in Uni and I can´t really speak as a professional - I believe that marketing is not about depicting what normal people do in a normal setting in a normal life. Marketing is about telling you what you should want and how you should behave. My beef with the ad (and yes, I´m also taking into account my lifelong struggle with my weight and body image) is that it shows that you should want a Peloton for Christmas and that you should want to get fit and thin (let´s not kid ourselves that thinness isn´t almost always linked to health, I´ve spent a whole life listening to people "caring about my health") and that you should think it´s an amazing gift from your husband, just like the girl in the ad.
I´ve always had problems with my body image. Even at my thinnest, I still thought I was fat as a cow. Me and my wife, we try to encourage ourselves to eat healthier, to try and exercise, and we just got a (cheaper) bike to try and do more exercise at home. If she had given me the bike as a gift, after I told her I wanted to get one and try to workout more, I would definitely not be offended. But this is an ad. It´s not a person appreciative of my feelings and issues - it´s something that fuels a society that views me as unhealthy and that the best gift I could get for Christmas is something that will make me lose weight.
Also, I´m well aware that beauty standards are more heavily bestowed upon women (it doesn´t mean men don´t suffer from it, my male cousin has also body issues and is known to be on a seesaw of dieting and bingeing his whole life). I know a lot of women that are told by their bfs or husbands (and also their mothers, their gfs and wives too) that they look fat and should lose weight - one of my best friends ended her engagement because her fiancé said he would only marry her if she lost the weight she gained since they started dating, no kidding. So maybe if some people are "reading too much into it" is because it resonates with what they go through all of their lives. That can be said about the people that saw this ad and had a problem with it and the same can be said about people that complain about sexism in general, or racism, or homophobia. Maybe you don´t see it through your lenses, but it doesn´t mean what they see through theirs is wrong just because it´s different from yours.
And as a final statement, I must say: damn, that bike is expensive.