Wendy31
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- Mar 5, 2005
I think we don't want to confuse the issue, though.
These babies given up for adoption are born.
But even though they are born, because they are not legal adults or anywhere near the stage where they could potentially make decions for themselves, legally, parents must make decisions for them, just as they do for an illness or congenital birth defect, etc.
You're right, of course, & I recognize that there's a difference.
But I think, in many instances, birth mothers, for different reasons, may decide to choose adoption over other options because of the promise of the sealed adoption records.
Birth mothers make different choices for their children. Adoption is one of those choices. She can choose a closed adoption. She can choose an open adoption. She can choose to maintain contact w/ the adoptive family. She can choose to leave the baby at a local fire station & walk away.
The child doesn't get a say in how his/her life starts.
The adoptee should have rights, but their rights shouldn't undo the conscious, often very brave, selfless choice his/her birth mother made. And I'm afraid that the fear of having adoption records unsealed may cause some birth mothers, who would have chosen adoption, to make other choices.
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