lovemygoofy
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2004
I have some completely different questions.
Is this new behavior? Did your son wake up one day and become a hellion? Was this something that has been gradually getting worse? Did he get new friends? Has he been doing other stupid things but now getting caught?
I'm confused if he just started all these actions or his actions have been getting worse and you are at the reap and sow part of letting things go by?
Why did you bother to get his truck of impound? Does he have a bank account? He wouldn't have a bank account card or access to any money. I would carry his drivers' license in my wallet and get him a generic id card.
You should not be on the hook for the damage your kid did to your other son's car. Why should you pay for something he did? Make him own his actions. Quit letting him get by so easy! Doing everything for him now, will not do him any favors as an adult. If he screws up, make him take responsibility. He knows what is right and wrong.
Is this new behavior? Did your son wake up one day and become a hellion? Was this something that has been gradually getting worse? Did he get new friends? Has he been doing other stupid things but now getting caught?
I'm confused if he just started all these actions or his actions have been getting worse and you are at the reap and sow part of letting things go by?
Why did you bother to get his truck of impound? Does he have a bank account? He wouldn't have a bank account card or access to any money. I would carry his drivers' license in my wallet and get him a generic id card.
You should not be on the hook for the damage your kid did to your other son's car. Why should you pay for something he did? Make him own his actions. Quit letting him get by so easy! Doing everything for him now, will not do him any favors as an adult. If he screws up, make him take responsibility. He knows what is right and wrong.