I am so frustrated and a little sad right now.
Why can't people just mind their own business about what we do with our lives??
I am taking dd to Disney 3rd week in March..just the two of us. Dh and I have worked it out. He's taking the week off and doing a bunch of fun stuff with ds. Ds doesn't WANT to go to Disney. He WANTS to spend the week with daddy doing all the things they have planned. Daddy and ds are looking forward to their week together.
My mom is laying into me "what?? again? why do you need to go to Disney? you never save any money" blah blah I am 39 years old. I make plenty of money, pay all of my bills, have NO debt and I just don't get how or why this should affect her. Same with my best friend. She has a fit when I tell her I'm going to Disney. "your kids have been to disney too much" etc.
My best friend and her family have been once. We took her whole family and stayed at AKL. I did so happily, joyfully and wouldn't change a thing...seriously. But ummmm, I don't get how she can criticize me for going to Disney frequently when I took her and her family on a 10 day premium vacation??
Why isn't the answer "because I want to, that's why" enough??
We are under extraordinary stress at home with issues with my ds. The next several weeks are filled with appointments, MRI's, EEGs, trips to Boston etc. So much of my time is spent focusing on ds that my dd, 6, gets whatever is left over ..at least that's how it feels. She needs her mommy!
Does she NEED to go to Disney? No...but I WANT TO TAKE HER darn it! I want to. Isn't that ok????
I know I don't NEED to justify it here, I just hope someone will understand.
To boot, I WANT to stay at a deluxe resort..and all she wants to do is stay at Pop Century. She's never stayed there before. She likes the pictures. This is driving me nuts but I'm totally doing this for her..it's about her, not me. If she wants the hippy dippy pool, so be it. Hey, it's saving me like $200/night. It'll be mobbed because it's March but I'll just have to try to plan well.
I don't know why, at age 39, I still feel somehow like I need my parents' approval still to take a simple trip to the Mouse with MY daughter.
Someone tell me I'm not crazy?
I know parents are always concerned for their kids. But really, I do quite well for myself. I dread my best friend's reaction too when she finds out. I have to tell her because she works for me so she'll need to cover for me when I'm out of town.
Why can't people just mind their own business about what we do with our lives??
I am taking dd to Disney 3rd week in March..just the two of us. Dh and I have worked it out. He's taking the week off and doing a bunch of fun stuff with ds. Ds doesn't WANT to go to Disney. He WANTS to spend the week with daddy doing all the things they have planned. Daddy and ds are looking forward to their week together.
My mom is laying into me "what?? again? why do you need to go to Disney? you never save any money" blah blah I am 39 years old. I make plenty of money, pay all of my bills, have NO debt and I just don't get how or why this should affect her. Same with my best friend. She has a fit when I tell her I'm going to Disney. "your kids have been to disney too much" etc.
My best friend and her family have been once. We took her whole family and stayed at AKL. I did so happily, joyfully and wouldn't change a thing...seriously. But ummmm, I don't get how she can criticize me for going to Disney frequently when I took her and her family on a 10 day premium vacation??
Why isn't the answer "because I want to, that's why" enough??
We are under extraordinary stress at home with issues with my ds. The next several weeks are filled with appointments, MRI's, EEGs, trips to Boston etc. So much of my time is spent focusing on ds that my dd, 6, gets whatever is left over ..at least that's how it feels. She needs her mommy!
Does she NEED to go to Disney? No...but I WANT TO TAKE HER darn it! I want to. Isn't that ok????
I know I don't NEED to justify it here, I just hope someone will understand.
To boot, I WANT to stay at a deluxe resort..and all she wants to do is stay at Pop Century. She's never stayed there before. She likes the pictures. This is driving me nuts but I'm totally doing this for her..it's about her, not me. If she wants the hippy dippy pool, so be it. Hey, it's saving me like $200/night. It'll be mobbed because it's March but I'll just have to try to plan well.
I don't know why, at age 39, I still feel somehow like I need my parents' approval still to take a simple trip to the Mouse with MY daughter.
Someone tell me I'm not crazy?
I know parents are always concerned for their kids. But really, I do quite well for myself. I dread my best friend's reaction too when she finds out. I have to tell her because she works for me so she'll need to cover for me when I'm out of town.