I also just read the PJ, and well...YOU'RE MARRIED!!! Congrats, and I'm sure that all of the problems you were thinking about up until the wedding day were pushed out of your mind on the wedding day. Hopefully it went just as you planned, and if not I hope the detours were for the better. I also hope that your 2nd ceremony goes well! I'm Catholic as well and although no one is pressuring me into getting married in a Catholic church (although I'm sure my grandma wants to say something) I will probably end up having a very small ceremony as well. Mainly because it would really grate on my nerves if the church didn't recognize my marraige.
Can't wait to read your TR!