Poohforyou
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- Mar 16, 2011
I guess this is part of my question. He adopted her when he and mom got married. Now he and mom are divorcing. Daughter is 18 and is changing her name back to what it was before mom and he were married. It just seems awkward that a child can be adopted by a non-related adult because of the bio-parent marrying said adult, but when the marriage ends the adoption still stands, even though the adoptive parent is gone, gone, gone. He adopted her because he married her mother, not because he was looking to become a father, and now the marriage is over- therefore it seems weird that the adoption stands even though the marriage no longer exists… so I was wondering how college financial aid would view the situation.
I don't understand why you're having such difficulty with this. It doesn't matter when the adoption was done. That man is her father and will be forever regardless of the parent's marital status. Her bio-dad would have had his parental rights terminated before the adoption. An adoption isn't something to be taken lightly because it lasts forever unless it is terminated by the courts.