ruadisneyfan2
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- Joined
- May 20, 2006
Checking in. Still chipping away at the mortgage. It's down to around $51k. I started attacking it last Aug 6 and it was just under $106k then. When I first joined this thread in 2013, I never would have dreamed of being able to dedicate that much $ toward our mortgage. We have grown so much since then. Having the covid numbers increase lately has made it an easy decision to not travel.
My dad was in the hospital for a few days and now is in rehab to get PT and build his strength up. They have very limited visitation so it's kind of a break for us to not have to run around every night. I had been working all day, then visiting him in the hospital til 8-8:30pm, then picking up his mail and newspaper. I'd finally get home at 9pm and collapse after going non-stop from 5:30 am. So now I'll be visiting him twice per week. I was finally able to visit outside with him today and it was a huge relief to hear him say he's happy there and is in no hurry to go home. It's good for him to be around people all day instead of sitting home and grieving for my mom.
He still pays his bills old school by mailing checks so I have taken over handling paying his bills until he gets home. He was also diagnosed with early dementia which we kind of guessed was happening. I balanced his checkbook going over the past 4 months and found that he didn't write down several transactions. Even when he's back home, I will need to help him often. I made new file folder labels for his desk because if it's going to be my job, it has to be neat & organized. After all these years of debt dumping, it has made me very organized! I can't keep track of money when everything is piled up or messy.
He asked me to dump the old milk from his fridge but when I got there Thursday night, I noticed the produce was getting old too and it turned into a huge cleaning and scrubbing job of his whole fridge. I'll go back tomorrow to get the stuff on the door. Lucky for him we had a Friday night wedding to attend so I took Friday off and feel like I have plenty of time to help him this weekend.
Anyway, sorry this turned into kind of a whining session. I feel like I've been neglecting my own house for so long.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend and just keep swimming!!
Hugs to all of you going through rough times!
My dad was in the hospital for a few days and now is in rehab to get PT and build his strength up. They have very limited visitation so it's kind of a break for us to not have to run around every night. I had been working all day, then visiting him in the hospital til 8-8:30pm, then picking up his mail and newspaper. I'd finally get home at 9pm and collapse after going non-stop from 5:30 am. So now I'll be visiting him twice per week. I was finally able to visit outside with him today and it was a huge relief to hear him say he's happy there and is in no hurry to go home. It's good for him to be around people all day instead of sitting home and grieving for my mom.
He still pays his bills old school by mailing checks so I have taken over handling paying his bills until he gets home. He was also diagnosed with early dementia which we kind of guessed was happening. I balanced his checkbook going over the past 4 months and found that he didn't write down several transactions. Even when he's back home, I will need to help him often. I made new file folder labels for his desk because if it's going to be my job, it has to be neat & organized. After all these years of debt dumping, it has made me very organized! I can't keep track of money when everything is piled up or messy.
He asked me to dump the old milk from his fridge but when I got there Thursday night, I noticed the produce was getting old too and it turned into a huge cleaning and scrubbing job of his whole fridge. I'll go back tomorrow to get the stuff on the door. Lucky for him we had a Friday night wedding to attend so I took Friday off and feel like I have plenty of time to help him this weekend.
Anyway, sorry this turned into kind of a whining session. I feel like I've been neglecting my own house for so long.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend and just keep swimming!!
Hugs to all of you going through rough times!