I guess i better explain the whole story.
In Mya, I booked a flight for DS, 7, Liam and me from JFK to MCO. Next day booked a flight , same plane, for DS, 6, T.J. At that time I got seat assignments for all 3 of us for both flights.
Day of departure, curb-side check-in at JFK. I was told T.J. was "randomly" selected & would have to be ticketed inside the terminal. No problem-I proceeded to the check-in, got a ticket and confirmed seats for the return flight.
Went to WDW-just mom & the boys, had a great time.
Well, when we were rerurning home, again at curbside check-in @MCO was told T.J. was" randomly" selected and could not be ticketed at curb, but at the gate. I asked him to clarify and made sure that it was the gate-not the terminal just inside-NO go to the gate.
After standing in line for security checks and trams, all the time informing people that my son did not yet have a ticket, was told no problem.
Get to the gate and was told that T.J.'s seat was reassigned and that he was sitting 8 rows behind me and Liam. I was informed that since he had not checked in, they reassigned the seat-to a family who could not be split-up-Emphatically!! I informed the agent at the gate that my 2 sons and i were also a family, would not be split-up, that I had these seats confirmed and this other family w/ my son's seat was not sitting together until 20 minutes ago. I told him he had to do something. He finally told me to telll the flight attendant of the situation and recommended 2 other passenger seats, next to my sons & ask them to switch w/ me. I asked him to speak to the flight attendant. He informed me that I needed to get on board and would be there sooner and that he could not leave the gate. OK-So, as we try to board, T.J. is red flagged for a security check-The security agent asked me to stepaside as they took my son. I informed her that both my son Liam and I would be going w/ T.J. for the security check. Luckily, the 3 other agents saw things my way.
After the "random" security check of my 6 yr. old, we boarded. I explained to the flight attendant of the situation -He told me to take a seat, he couldn't help me, and if I wanted to I could make the switch, but he could not do anything. Back&forth, back&forth, finally, I go to where T.J. is supposed to sit and Now, fully frustrated w/ the run-around, in tears, ask the 2 people to kindly switch, which they did.
One of the flight attendants later comes up and says, "I'm so glad you were able to sit together." No thanks to you-
I know this seems trivial, but I have many friends who are in the airline industry who have told me this was ridiculous and should not have happened. I also understand that working in that industry is very stressful, which is why I did not rant & rave like a lunatic.
I also am not upset by the random security check, although I doubt it was random as he was pulled both coming and going. I assume this "random" check is done for any tickets that are booked as a single. My bone of contention is the mishandling at the gate. It was indicative of a true beurocracy rather than an airline who should be a little more concerned w/ customer svce. I know-keep dreaming.
I have spoken to a friend who is a ticket agent at the gate in JFK. She has informed me to write a letter and is getting a few names of people who I should contact. I am not a letter writer per se, but this time I will be. When I plan a trip I always confirm 7 re-confrm, more than twice prior to flying.
Sorry this is so long, but there seemed to be a lot of confusion w/out all of the facts.