My Dad vehemently denies he ever showed any favortism towards my sister. I cannot even comprehend how he can think this because it was always so obvious to everyone. It was as though he never even made an effort to hide it so I cannot understand how he could be in denial about it. I mean I'm grown, I'm over it, we're not close but we get along so what the heck is the big deal? It really makes me wonder how my children will view their childhood. If there is one good thing that came out of the way my Dad treated me it was to make me realize what NOT to do with my children. I truly believe with all my heart I am doing a good job in making them feel loved, confident and secure (just like my Dad thought he did with me???). I cannot bear the thought that one day they will look back on their relationship with me the way I look back on mine with him. I mean, I know I am not making the same mistakes he did, but what other ones am I making that I am not even aware of?