After having success at Vero Beach we are considering a family trip to Hilton Head. We would have four kids with us so something for everyone is important. Few questions!
How do VB and HH differ? In good ways and bad.
Both are good but prefer HHI. More places to dine (off site) and generally more to do, everything from biking, to kayaking, fishing, and more. The downside to HHI is that it doesn't sit on the beach, but the shuttle runs often and is rarely, if ever, full. VB has the beach access going for it, but in most other areas, HHI is better.
Are there only 2 dining options at HH? Are they both fast casual or is there a nicer sit down restaurant?
Yes. You will have to go off site for a really good meal, but there are so many options, that it's fun trying to decide just where to eat each day. There is no sit down restaurant at HHI to be more direct. Still, there are a handful of good restaurants within a 5-10 minute walk and many more within 5-10 drive.
Are there children activities or clubs during the day or at night?
Yes, but have never participated, so I'll let someone else answer this one.
Are the rooms in good shape or in need of a refurb?
Good shape. Recently refurbished (last couple of years), I think. The walls and floors are thin, so noise can be an issue, but overall, they're lovely and inviting.
Is the beach useable or it it mostly dunes? Pics look nice but can’t tell if the beach there is good for lounging.
Very usable. There is plenty of room for lounging and, in fact, the beach fills up on nice days. The beach area is NOT private, just private access to the Disney Beach House. You can easily rent chairs and umbrellas on the beach--they're everywhere and I believe run by the lifeguarding corps.
Is there enough to do at the resort and surrounding areas for 5 nights?
Very much so. I'm sure others will chime in about specifics, but I don't think you'll run out of things to do, more like run out of time to do everything.
Thanks!