I don't mean this to sound disrespectful, but did you go to a public school? Why can't you do 5th grade math??
I don't understand why parents are considered qualified to teach their children from birth to age 5 (how to eat with a spoon, how to recognize colors, how to sing songs, etc etc) but suddenly when the child turns 5 they are now completely unqualified to teach their child anything and the child must be turned over to a government agency who has proven (HA HA HA) that they can do it so much better (yeah, right)
Things that make you go hmmmm....
Well, bookgirl, don't feel bad...I believe I was insulted as well.
To answer the op's "respectful?" question, I actually went to Catholic school, private high school, private college for my BA and public college for my Masters.
Math hasn't ever been my strong suit, but I'm pretty good at reading, writing, analytical thinking and recognizing an insult when I see one.
I certainly don't believe I have nothing left to teach my kids...and neither do their teachers at school, as far as I can tell.
I think this poster demonstrated one of my points, though. What if a parent doesn't realize that they are not qualified to cover a subject?
The lady with the daycare loved her kids and worked VERY HARD to teach them, but she lacked the knowledge to teach them many of the simple basics of spelling and grammar. No doubt she did a great job teaching them how to walk and tie shoes and sip from a cup, and even how to treat other people, but as far as I know there are no advanced degrees in those subjects.
It is true that no one teacher is strong in every subject, but one of the strengths in public education is that students are able to learn from a variety of people with diverse gifts and many areas of expertise. If they get a bad teacher one year, with a little luck and some help at home (from my husband and I) next year another qualified person will pick up the slack.
I am more than qualified to teach my children important life lessons, basic life skills, and because of my education and my love of writing and literature, I am also uniquely qualified in that area. They would benefit from my gifts in this area if I homeschooled...and they benefit from it now. I also have some background in history, philosophy and religion.
For math and science, I bring little to the table. Could I learn more?...sure I could...but I know there are far more qualified people than I who are ready and willing to do it for free just two blocks from my house.
I know I can read answers out of a teacher's guide. I also would never teach my kids out of a teacher's guide, and I know that the most gifted teachers at their school do not do that either.
They don't love my kids like I do - I know that - but the good ones love teaching and they have the added benefit of years of training and subject knowledge that I may not have...and no teacher's guide can give my kids that.