I noticed that no one's responded to your message yet and didn't want you to feel ignored! :-D
One of the things about homeschooling is that there are many, many reasons why families choose that path. It sounds like, in your experience, you had a good public school available. In too many cases, a "good" public school just is not there. I lived in Philadelphia for 20 years and, if I were still there, one of my main reasons for homeschooling would have been to keep my DS out of the complete mess the public schools face there (nearly daily violence,etc.). The private schools there, starting in Kindergarten, were running about $15,000 a year. No way we could afford that on one income.
In our situation, the main reason we homeschool is that my DS8 has marked auditory processing and articulation problems. In short, he cannot follow what's being taught in a classroom setting with 25 other kids around and other distractions. Also, because of his articulation problems, I can assure you the label "weird" would have been cemented on him at least 3 years ago by his peers. (He
did attend a parish preschool and his classmates thought he was from France! Once it was clear he had problems speaking, he was ostracized and became a very sullen, negative child.)
I also don't want to keep him in any bubble. He takes TaeKwonDo 3x a week and has made alot of friends there (he'll be testing for his Black Belt next month!), he does many things with other homeschooled kids and 6 of his cousins who also live here are homeschooled as well. He has speech therapy 2x a week and I'm encouraged that many of his issues, if not resolved, will at least be more manageable in time.
Some things I've learned as an adult, however: aside from being in a traditional school setting, there is no other time in your entire life when you will sit in a room all day with everyone else your same age; in general, homeschooled children seem better able to have sensible discussions with adults and children both older and younger than themselves than those who have spent nearly all there social hours only with kids their own age; adults are more accepting of differences in others than peer-pressure conscience kids; ultimately, every caring family will do what's best for their children.
Take care,
Karla B.