In the young to mid 20’s let’s say. I hear them comment and my wife tells me they mention that the sons stay out late, come home drunk. Bring friend over to drink and play poker late at night, the friends stay to sleep it off. Don’t clean up after themselves. Don’t take out the garbage, this sort of thing. Nag them to do anything.
I have made gentle comments to them that it’s time to have the men move out, or put a stop to that behavior and have them grow up and pitch in. That of course didn’t go over very well. Naturally they stuck up for their “little boys”. Saying it’s normal.
Got to thinking more about it. And thought these same women would not or did not put up with that sort of thing with ex husbands. And wouldn’t with a future husband. So I mentioned this to the one lady and there was silence. I wonder why they put up with this with another grown man in the house. Their sons, but it wouldn’t be acceptable if their husband acted the same way.
Any way, just something I was thinking about.
I have made gentle comments to them that it’s time to have the men move out, or put a stop to that behavior and have them grow up and pitch in. That of course didn’t go over very well. Naturally they stuck up for their “little boys”. Saying it’s normal.
Got to thinking more about it. And thought these same women would not or did not put up with that sort of thing with ex husbands. And wouldn’t with a future husband. So I mentioned this to the one lady and there was silence. I wonder why they put up with this with another grown man in the house. Their sons, but it wouldn’t be acceptable if their husband acted the same way.
Any way, just something I was thinking about.