LittleBlue22
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As joyful as I was to announce I was expecting a 5th, I am sad to say that our little one is in heaven today.
I went to my first OB appt. yesterday, they did a 3D ultrasound and that's when I found out. The baby was about 10 weeks old, looked perfectly normal, exept the heart was not beating. I've never miscarried before so this is all new to me. This was our last child to be so it makes me feel especially sad. It was an unexpected pregnancy and an equally unexpected outcome.
If you've miscarried before, what helped you get through it? Do you post on a miscarriage blog, if so which one? Do you know of any poems regarding loss?
Thank you all.
Update 5/19: I go for my pre op appt. tomorrow mid morning. I'm starting to get knots in my stomache. My dh will be going with me for support and he'll be able to retain the information better than I. The nurse mentioned drawing blood and I'd be given information for the procedure scheduled for Wed. (5/21). My heart is beating faster as I type. What should I expect during the pre op visit? I hate surprises. I feel like I'm starting another phase of an emotional roller coaster.
As joyful as I was to announce I was expecting a 5th, I am sad to say that our little one is in heaven today.
I went to my first OB appt. yesterday, they did a 3D ultrasound and that's when I found out. The baby was about 10 weeks old, looked perfectly normal, exept the heart was not beating. I've never miscarried before so this is all new to me. This was our last child to be so it makes me feel especially sad. It was an unexpected pregnancy and an equally unexpected outcome.
If you've miscarried before, what helped you get through it? Do you post on a miscarriage blog, if so which one? Do you know of any poems regarding loss?
Thank you all.
Update 5/19: I go for my pre op appt. tomorrow mid morning. I'm starting to get knots in my stomache. My dh will be going with me for support and he'll be able to retain the information better than I. The nurse mentioned drawing blood and I'd be given information for the procedure scheduled for Wed. (5/21). My heart is beating faster as I type. What should I expect during the pre op visit? I hate surprises. I feel like I'm starting another phase of an emotional roller coaster.