Mean Queen
<font color=blue><marquee> If only life were like
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2007
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. When I miscarried, it did help me to post on support boards.
I'm so sorry.
I've had my share of miscarriages--one is too many, but I've had 5. The last one was my only unplanned pregnancy and it was just as hard as any of them. Many people will say how it's natures way of not letting a baby that's not meant to be continue to develop, but I never felt any comfort in that, especially not at first. My brother, who was never too wonderful with words and never had children of his own, said the best thing to me some time after I'd had my first miscarriage. He simply told me how sorry he was. What else can be said, really? Time helps and at one point I was part of an internet group for people who had miscarriages. It did help to talk with other people. At least it did for me.
I am so sorry. Nothing helps, but maybe the passage of time. I miscarried on 5/7/95. People acted like it was no big deal, but here we are 13 years later and I remember that exact date.
Hang in there honey.