pezgirlroy
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Exactly.^^^^THIS!
Everyone should be able to choose who they want to dance with, have touch them, talk to, etc. Your body, your choice.
Exactly.^^^^THIS!
Everyone should be able to choose who they want to dance with, have touch them, talk to, etc. Your body, your choice.
So you think that it’s ok to turn someone down because they are disabled? My daughters would be in trouble for turning him down.DD went to a church-sponsored dance with a girl cousin when they were both teenagers, older than the middle-school kids in the article. A guy approached the cousin and it was considered impolite to turn down anyone, even tho the guy was mentally disabled. The cousin balked and walked away so the guy turned to DD and she danced with him. She got lots of pity looks from the girls around her as he couldn't dance, and he drooled "all over" her (her description) but she toughed it out til the song ended and she politely thanked him and excused herself. And never went to another church-sponsored dance. BTW, it was o.k. for the guys to turn down the girls.
The article says they were learning the box step, swing, and line dances. I don’t think it’s inappropriate to learn a waltz.And why is there slow dancing for 11 year olds?
Also, why on Earth is dancing being taught in PE? Like PE isn't full of embarassment, failure, and hurt feelings enough as it is??
It's ridiculous that a school dance is considered PE.
It's ridiculous that girls are taught that they're not allowed to say no.
I understand a girl's need to say "no" to rape, but this is for a middle school dance lesson and the music lasts what, five minutes per song? https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/a...ghters-right-to-say-no/ar-BB10sDxR?li=BBnb7Kz
I wouldn't want to dance with a creeper, but how far should the school go to make the guys feel included?
The article says the boy asked her for “a slow dance.”The article says they were learning the box step, swing, and line dances. I don’t think it’s inappropriate to learn a waltz.
Oops, now I see it....Also, why on Earth is dancing being taught in PE? Like PE isn't full of embarassment, failure, and hurt feelings enough as it is??
I don't see where they said that at ALL. But is IS okay to turn down someone because you don't want to dance with them. Period.So you think that it’s ok to turn someone down because they are disabled? My daughters would be in trouble for turning him down.
Oh, wait, it's Utah, so that makes it all ok....It's Utah.
It's OK to turn someone down because of any reason or no reason at all. Hats off to the daughter that made the kid feel good of course, but she wasn't forced to do it and shouldn't be forced to do anything with anyone.So you think that it’s ok to turn someone down because they are disabled? My daughters would be in trouble for turning him down.
They should be teaching boys how to deal with rejection, not teaching them that they're entitled to whatever girl they want.
Any child or adult had the right to turn down anyone.... There is no right or wrong reason. That’s personal. We all have our personal likes and dislikes. Things we are comfortable with or not. I would never expect someone to dance. Date or whatever my kids. If they didn’t want to.... regardless of the reason.So you think that it’s ok to turn someone down because they are disabled? My daughters would be in trouble for turning him down.