I have the same question that a PP had. So you spank at home...what happens at school, preschool or daycare, etc?
At preschool and daycare we managed to get the kids to listen to us and to behave without every laying a hand on them. And we KNOW that some of the kids were spanked at home but they listened to us at school.
But we also managed to get some "picky" kids eat fruits and vegetables at school that their parents swore they wouldn't eat. So maybe it was just us...I don't know.
If 2 of us can discipline 12 3 year olds without being physical, I dont get why it can't be done at home
. We were with these kids 8 hours/5 days week, I was hit, bit, kicked, screamed at, etc by children while working at daycare. NOT ONCE did it occur to me that spanking would be of any use. Even if it wasnt against the rules of discipline at preschool, it never would have crossed my mind.