Babeecee, I really wonder my self what would happen if the situation were reversed. But I know in my heart, I can honestly say that I would never EVER deny someone a dream just because I did it first. I know that I would be supper excited that they get to experience something so wonderful. Unfortunately, some people don't think of how others might feel... they don't put themselves in their shoes. It's a shame. In any case, I know he would feel just as miffed as I do right now. But what can you do? People are how they are, and you just can't change them.
Olivia, I am not sure what his wife's thoughts are on this because she was not present when the topic was discusses both times. In fact, the last time it was discussed I was not even present. The subject was brought up by someone else who shouldn't have said anything, and a full discussion was then had by my fiance and his family, where again his brothers dissatisfaction was clearly let known. At this point, I do not feel as though I should have to continue to "pour my heart out" to them just to "convince" them to "let us" have a wedding there. It should be enough that I want it, for what ever reason it is, and they shouldn't have anything negative to say about it. If we decide to go ahead with this plan, we will not sit down and talk to his brother and wife because that was already done. Now its just a matter of what we want, and if it turns out to be that we want to do a Disney wedding, quite frankly if they don't like it they don't have to come. That's their decision.
it will be for all of you!
