Sorry that I have not gotten back to this. I started to post the other night but got side tracked (which is happening a lot). First, I would like thank all of you for your kind words. Also, for those of you have lost loved ones my heart goes out to you.
The viewing was on 25 Feb and the funeral was on the 26th. The grandchildren all wanted to go the viewing so we let them. My DGS (Cameron, age 10) would come up to me and hug me and then disappear. Later on he would come back and hug me again. He told me later that he would go up to the person who needed a hug the most and go on to the next person. He told me that Aunt Janet needed the most hugs because she was crying the most. My DGD Alexis and my DGD Gabriella each made something to put in their grumps's casket. My DGS Stephen was very loving to everyone also. My DH's sister was there with her grandchildren and I was amazed at how good all the grandchildren were.
I dressed my DH in a Disney shirt and shorts. He was not a dress up kind of person but did dress up for very special occasions. For the funeral I wore a matching shirt only mine was red and his was blue. Quite a few times when we would get dressed we would end up wearing the same shirt without the other one knowing how we dressed. I asked everyone to dress casual and if they had Disney shirts to wear them.
My DH was known as Grumps to the grandchildren. He got that name by a text that my DGS Cameron sent. This is what it said: "Dear grump. I love you a lot you mace my Hort wide. I love you so so so much beeches you or the only grump in the world. hope you come back soon. love Cameron." For those who can't read kid talk mace is make, Hort is Heart, and beeches is because. He read that at the funeral.
Alexis spoke about how she was closer to Grumps than her birth grandfather who also died. Her and her brother only had him in their lives for just less than 2 years but they loved him a lot and he loved them just as much.
Gabriella sang a song for Grumps and it was really cute.
My DD Janet spoke about what a big heart he had and some of the nice things he did. Others spoke about funny things that my DH did with them or to them. It helped to keep the mood of the funeral light and everyone was able to laugh.
I set up the 18 ships that my DH bought on each
Disney cruise we took. Every time we took a cruise he would buy a ship and get it signed by the Captain. Our first cruise was in Oct of 2009 when I retired from my job. He wanted to give me a gift of a cruise and fell in love with cruising. I had them put "Gone cruising to Heaven" on his stone.
After the funeral service we traveled to Bushnell to the Florida National Cemetery where military members get buried. The Honor Guard presented me the flag and fired the guns. It was very touching. They gave each of the grandchildren a bullet and they gave me some also.
After the burial I took my DDs and their families to Disney where we spent the night at The Art of Animation. When I checked in the cast member said I looked tired and I explained to her what happened. I also told her it was now time to celebrate life with my daughters and grandchildren. I wanted the kids to have some fun before they had to leave. There was no time for the parks but they had time to swim. We had 2 rooms and each room received a beautiful gift bag with snacks and fruits sent by the cast member who checked us in. It was very thoughtful and we let the manager know.
I have more to post and will try to get to it tomorrow.