Was this repeated to your son and often enough? That could be part of why he's so defeated not that it's your fault, it's kinda an assumption but it's why many of us ended up disillusioned with college degrees, we had been told by our parents get a degree you'll get a job and make more money. Unfortunately over time that is just not enough nor a given. I graduated in 2010 and it was ridiculously hard to get a job due to the Recession, the job effects were still present then.
Now on the other hand some places may be more suited for certain industries. In my area there are some options for aerospace engineering degree that my husband graduated with but more than likely had he stayed in that particular field he would have had to move, not completely out of state but it def. could have been. The engineering company he worked for had encouraged him to interview at other places too so he could get that experience and understand if that's what he wanted to do. I think he just interviewed for Cessna.
But mechanical, design and construction engineering jobs are a lot more prevalent here
Yeah GPA can mean a lot although I'm not sure what the expectations are for computer engineering. I know for aerospace the GPA should be high although that program could be done in 5 years or an aggressive credit hour schedule in 4 years (my husband did his in 4 years).
This is probably the main thing for me. Depending on the area internships may be crucial to getting experience, exposure and a job offer. But the truth is only getting an internship for engineering this far into college is a problem. I know I know the pandemic and all but was there
any consideration to him doing it right after high school before he got to college (this would have been before the pandemic happened).
My husband did his engineering internship at age 17 the summer between his senior year of high school and freshman year of college. He was going for aerospace engineering for college but the company would have had him doing mechanical. He was asked to stay on and work during his college years and by junior year was offered a full time position once he graduated. Because he was going for aerospace they had him do some bridge courses that would provide him more mechanical experience. The engineering company he worked for did a lot of internships out of high school. I wonder if your son had done that if it would have helped him with understanding was it truly what he wanted to go into. Maybe a tech firm of some sort?
My husband recently did a career fair for his current company that does airline fueling systems. He did it at his alma mater and he came back saying that absolutely for sure the pandemic has had an effect on this college kids. Many of them really didn't do well with interviews. I've wondered what jobs if any some of these kids had. One kid was bordering on sexual harassments towards the female coworker that went with my husband