firefly_ris
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- Nov 25, 2015
You can frame it as you were fostering the cat for grandpa -- and by nature fostering is not a permanent situation, but the entire point is to do what's best for the animal you're fostering and be a good helper. I've fostered dogs and cats for several years and my kids are now 6, 8 and 10 and they have a good understanding of what they're doing when we accept a foster into the home. Do they miss them? Sure yes. They will sometimes bring up past fosters and ask if I know how they are doing (some I do, some I don't), but they always come away from the experience glad that they were able to help a pet when they needed us. Don't fill the void immediately -- I think some sadness is an imperative lesson and it will make them more resilient and understand that they don't get every single thing they want in life, and that a new pet isn't a replacement for a different one. I'd focus on the positive way you helped grandpa and his cat and how it's important to help. Just IMO.