Hi Wedding Twin,
I am so sorry everything hasn't been going smoothly, but everything will turn out beautifully. I fully understand what you're going through. My FMIL is having serious letting go issues and creating hell for everyone. My dress is two sizes too big and they are refusing to alter it, we ordered my ring last night and we are praying that it will be ready by the time we leave (12 days). I scrapped some of the favors I was going to do, and the welcome bags will be half empty, because work is crazy for me too right now. There are guests who still are not 100% sure if they are going and have not RSVP'd. My brother backed out of going just 3 weeks ago and so my two nieces, who were going to be a jr. bridesmaid and the flowergirl won't be there and we are stuck with their dresses and they are very sad. But everything will be ok.
I don't know if you care, but on the off chance that it may help you feel better, I just thought that I would share... the planets will be positioned very nicely on May 5th. Astrologically speaking, it is a perfect day to get married, (or buy a house, start a business, etc). The universe will be blessing and strengthening new commitments and new contracts of all kinds on that day, especially in the late afternoon. So even if all of the details are not perfect, the outcome should be perfect and long lasting.
Also the general numerology of the day (2) is very good for strengthening or building a foundation of understanding, commitment, unconditional love, compassion and the list goes on. So everything will turn out perfectly.
(If you want me to delete this let me know, i don't want to offend anyone
)
LOL, we may have a semi naked wedding too, if my too big dress falls off!
Nikki