I believe you are right, but I have come to the conclusion that I don't have to be one of them. I can't tell you how many times I have thought that I needed to look into one more ADR or at going to a dessert party just to make this trip special but then I catch myself realizing that our trip is already special! We really don't need to eat here or go to the Merry and Brighy dessert party to make it special. Personally, I'm excited to host my own dessert party and tell my family of 10 that I'm treating them to $600 worth of sugar, treats, and drinks at the Osborne Family Lights, lol! I know that there's no way we will spend that much, but figure it will be a fun night for the kids (and adults) to get whatever they want.
For every one of me, though, I'm sure there's 100 more willing to take my place. I'm really ok with that. We will enjoy Disney for as long as we can in our own way!
We definitely won't be eating here if it's $60 a plate. We may not even try to eat here at all even though we will be there the week it is supposedly scheduled to open. At this point, we are pretty satisfied with our ADRs. I'm still following along to see if it is QS for lunch (I know it's not sounding promising, but you never know.)