I hesitate to comment, but after reading all 24 previous pages, I feel . . . well, "entitled." - LOL!!!
I am the proud mother of 2 children (ages 4yrs and 7mon) and the things I am reading make me appalled.
I have flown extensively with DD (4) and already twice with DS (7 mo). Most recently, we flew SW. We did family preboarding but *did* end up splitting because the flight was a continuation and many seats were already taken. While I would love to have been with DD and DH, we all just took it in stride, very happy to be on our way (to Vegas that time). I cared for the baby and DH for DD. No one was put out, no one raised a question about "rights" or people moving any of the other things I have seen some people claim to be entitled. We grabbed our seats, buckled up and enjoyed the flight.
I guess my take is best summed up by this: you get what you pay for. In some cases that is very clear. If you would like to pay for the first class ticket, or on SWA -Business Select, then you know for sure that (barring some unfortunate delay or flight cancellation whereby you are forced to fly on another flight etc) you will be able to pick your seat and board early, then pay the extra money and do so. Otherwise, select the airline/fare that is best for your needs or pocketbook. Please note, however, what
is included. Simply put, for most of us, what we are actually purchasing is transportation to/from another city in a pretty safe manner with decent accommodations for our comfort and well being. It may include luggage (SWA) or not (others), family boarding or not, seat assignments, drinks/snacks or not. When you buy anything, extras generally cost more. Parents especially need to be aware and plan accordingly when they are buying their tickets so that they can reasonably insure the safety, well being and peace of mind of flying with their children. Planning in advance and a grateful attitude are always helpful in travel. Assistance from other passengers, was not purchased and if received should be accepted with sheer gratitude as they were not obligated to do anything -from picking up a dropped binkie to changing seats! And certainly they are not required to put themselves in uncomfortable or sacrificial positions for another's behalf- yet many do! (Bless them!)
That said, there is a certain amount of surprise at how SW has rolled out these new "options" but I don't really see a better way, unfortunately. It is not a policy that could be grandfathered in for passengers who booked before a certain date as it would not be applied evenly. Perhaps they could have waited until the new schedule opened. . . I don't know. It is what it is. If you are aware of it now and so not plan to use it, I completely understand your objections. But please do not berate or harass those people who *do* choose to pay for the auto check-in to gain a better position in the boarding queue. It is just not nice.
Now, can't we all just try to be considerate of others and thankful for the "offers" of strangers rather than demanding ill perceived rights?
Bavaria- I am shocked at the unthinkable behavior you have described. I too have seen similar exchanges as we travel extensively. I hope to some day have the pleasure of traveling with you as I *think and hope* my children would make me proud of their behavior.
We have flown extensively with our DD (transcontinental and transpacific) and we have only had praise at how well behaved she is on the plane. Our son has also done well, but he is a little young yet to say it is an ingrained 'behavior." Our next trip is in Oct so I guess we shall see.