princessmom29
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- Mar 3, 2008
My 12 mo old goes to bed no later than 8pm, normally 715pm. She goes to bed in her crib. Before I got the crib last month, she went to bed in the packnplay in my room. Eventually she comes in bed with us, last night was 5am and she nursed and crashed back out. Some nights DH holds her when she is sleeping and we just bring her upstairs when we go to bed, but I personally like her to go to bed before us so we can have some quiet time.
I will say that we've sort of done this with is all 3 kids (oldest is 9) and my kids are all very adaptable sleepers. They can sleep in hotels,etc no problems. We have a general schedule for sleep but no concrete schedule, no "special' blankets,etc. I just grab whatever blanket is clean to cuddle up against DD when I'm rocking her (which I don't do everynight...just depends LOL.)
I do pat backs...and that I can bring and do anywhere...we reguarly camp and travel with 12 mo old DD and I think the fact that we do cosleep has made it easier to travel with her. She doesn't expect to be in her own room in her crib. My friends who had great sleepers at home didnt have good sleepers in hotels, etc because of this (baby was used to crib, fan, quiet,etc)
Plus, what works this week might night work next...it's all about being adaptable for us.
My D has always, form day 1 slept in her own bed. We lived away from friends and family for the first 3 years of her life and were frequently visitng in different places on weekends. I never had a problem getting her to sleep in new nad different places. She did just fine at mom's house, the inlaws, and in hotels from the time I got her sleep trained on. Befroe that I never noticed a difference in her habits between being home or somewhere else.
FWIW I still think that for most poeple co-sleeping is NOT a good idea. Some of you seem to have made it work for you, and that is great, but EVEYONE I know personally who has done it, without exception, has had a major problem getting the child out of their bed and into a bed of their own. They have all said that they will NEVER do it agian. I feel like leaving a baby to cry for hours in NOT a good idea, but that a little bit of fussing never hurt any child and it is important that babies learn to put themselves to sleep as early as possible. I think it means that everyone, infant included, sleeps better and is better rested. Yes, they will fuss and even cry a bit, but I don't get why that is such a horrible thing. I see it as necessary to do what isbest for the childby teaching them a valuble coping skill.
Again just my opinion, and YMMV. I just wanted to sum it all up as I see it.