Mkrop
I just cant go on demand
- Joined
- Feb 26, 2007
Not comparable. A woman and her daughter belong in a female restroom. A son belongs in a male restroom. They are seperated by gender for a reason. A valid reason is not "just becasue it makes me feel better". Which is what it is about, after the child is old enough to go to school by themselves. There is not a need for it, calming a parent's paranoia is not a need.
At some point mom and dad need to cut the strings, and let their child do things that may feel a bit uncomfortable at first. After a while, the parent then becomes comfortable with the freedom they have given. It is called letting your child grow up, and mature, and helping them be ready to deal with life without having to have someone hold their hand all of the time.
Ok and by whose timeframe should I use...I guess you think I should use yours since you know best
ETA I will use the example of driving in a car with friends, some might think it is ok to go off with anyone who has a license, and others may want to wait until the driver has some more experince...which parent is right, neither is right or wrong, they are doing what they perceive is the SAFEST decision for their child.