for your daughter (and you too!)
Very good move by your husband to immediately press charges! As for the meeting tomorrow, most schools have a written code of conduct / discipline which spells out specifically what behavior is not acceptable and the consequences. Does your school have one? We get one sent home at the beginning of each school year and it stays here at home, but you have to send back a page signed by the student and parent agreeing to the code. If your school has one of these familiarize yourself with it - that's a starting point for what the school should do. IF you don't feel the discipline plan will keep your daughter safe then pursue that line of thought rather than being concerned about punishing the bully... the school may not be able to tell you much about the other kid and consequences because of privacy laws.
GOOD LUCK and my thoughts are with you !
Very good move by your husband to immediately press charges! As for the meeting tomorrow, most schools have a written code of conduct / discipline which spells out specifically what behavior is not acceptable and the consequences. Does your school have one? We get one sent home at the beginning of each school year and it stays here at home, but you have to send back a page signed by the student and parent agreeing to the code. If your school has one of these familiarize yourself with it - that's a starting point for what the school should do. IF you don't feel the discipline plan will keep your daughter safe then pursue that line of thought rather than being concerned about punishing the bully... the school may not be able to tell you much about the other kid and consequences because of privacy laws.
GOOD LUCK and my thoughts are with you !