Same here. My dad died last year too(*hug). It has definitely changed how we do things and what parts of life we place the most value on.This was so well written. My dad passed away about a yr ago & I realized these things then especially the points about living life & spending $ on experiences. He wasn’t as young as her but was still relatively young. I realized there was so much he never got to do that he said he would do “one day” & he died with a pile of $ that he did him no good. It has completely changed how we live now.
So sorry for your loss too. I had a friend (36) die of cancer too 2 years before my dad so I also think about him when evaluating priorities. I know you have to be prepared for the future, but I just do that minimally now & try to live for now b/c there are so many ppl who never get that future.Same here. My dad died last year too(*hug). It has definitely changed how we do things and what parts of life we place the most value on.
Besides my father passing away, my best friend battled breast cancer a year ago. She is my age, 31, pretty young with two little kids at home... Her attitude and her fight also made us stop and evaluate our life and reorganize our priorities.