Hi, mamabunny.
I agree with everything you said.
That is what I did when I was at Pop. The bed was really high and they brought me a regular step stool and a chair for the bathtub. I was in my usual standard room with my mobility
scooter. But my balance and foot neuropathy had gotten worse over the years.
When I went down and told them that I slipped getting out the bed the next morning and slid down to the floor, they brought me a stool with a hand handle to hold onto and said that I would be better off in a roll-in shower room for tomorrow.
I felt like I was in a slow-motion movie as I slid down to the floor. I didn't have anything to grab onto and my bare feet were sliding on the smooth floor. No carpeting. It took me such a long time to figure how to get up since I didn't have anything high enough to get a good grip on to help me get up on my left knee. But I finally did after about 30-minutes.
That is one of my biggest fears is falling down and not being able to get up by myself.
And it has always been so embarrassing when strangers try to help me get up even though I am always very appreciative.
When I transferred the next day, I took the stool with a hand handle and the bath chair with me.
I was so surprised that the bed was low and just right for me to get in and out without needing the stool with a hand handle and they took it back for me.
I had never used a roll-in shower before and I asked if I could keep the chair to put in the shower because I thought the fold down seat might not hold me.
On a side note, the photo in the Disability Room and Measurements post of the Pop roll-in shower with a chair in it was a photo taken from my room report. Sorry about that. I think that I saw where you and Bill was wondering why they would put a chair in the roll-in shower. I was new to posting about handicap rooms and didn't think about removing the chair.
Anyway, after a couple of days, I got more comfortable with the fold down mesh shower seat and I had them remove the shower chair.
Ever since then I will be staying in the roll-in shower room at Pop if available.
I really like the Murphy bed folded up and creating a table next to my bed. So convenient and so much room for me and my wheelchair.
I'll be staying at BWV using a roll-in shower for the first time. I hope to get measurement at both.
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