I enjoyed this thread There are mean people everywhere, and as the bumper sticker says, "mean people suck"
We see it all the time; often, it's in front of my boy. I always use it as a "Teachable moment" by saying "see how that person acted? It wasnt very nice was it? He looked silly didnt he? Don't act like that."
My biggest challenge on DCL is the seat-saving-police. My family of three get places early - whether it's the pool, Castaway cay, or theatre, we get there to get the seats we want. Invariably, our stuff is moved from beach/pool chairs or our seats swiped in the theater if we go to the bathroom or get a drink.
I especially dont understand the pool. My son will be swimming - I get up to check on him, return, and find people in my seat or beginning to move our stuff. If I say "Excuse me, those are my seats" they say "You can't save seats!" and stomp away. We'll be watching a movie, we go get ice cream or pizza, we come back and there's people in our seats. and they ALWAYS dump our stuff in the dirty towel bins - sometimes we retrieve them, other times (last two cruises) we have to wait overnight and get my boy's crocs back from customer care. It's almost as if it's a personal mission for some people - "let's dump personal belongings in the towel bin!"
Im not sure what the answer is but I should be able to keep my prime spots, that we put the time/effort in to get, and still be able to get up and get a snack or even cool off in the pool. The problem is NOT the "Seat savers" ... the problem is the people who get upset that they didnt get there early enough to get good seats!
I wont even mention the people who arrive to sail away party or pirate night until after it starts but plop their kids down in front of mine who's been there for 30-45 mins...
I don't want to comment on the seat saving issue because I think we've been very good respecting everyone's views in this thread so I would hate for it to be closed because those issues can get very heated.
But I just wanted to say that "mean people" exists on both sides. I think one thing we realize in these boards is that everyone has a perspective and everyone thinks their position is correct.