My parents very generously paid for my wedding in 2013.
I didn't go into the planning process expecting them to pay for it, since I was older, but my father was really insistent on paying. For my part, I tried to keep expenses down by choosing a less expensive dress ($250) and really limiting extras. Since I'd worked in the restaurant/catering industry for most of my twenties, we ended up hiring people I knew and who were willing to extend discounts to my parents. All told, my parents ended up footing a $20,000 bill for around 200 guests, most of whom were family or firefighters with whom my father had worked. My in laws couldn't contribute financially, and that was fine by us and by my parents.
To this day, my husband and I are extremely grateful to my parents for having done that for us, but it is nothing we would have ever expected.
I didn't go into the planning process expecting them to pay for it, since I was older, but my father was really insistent on paying. For my part, I tried to keep expenses down by choosing a less expensive dress ($250) and really limiting extras. Since I'd worked in the restaurant/catering industry for most of my twenties, we ended up hiring people I knew and who were willing to extend discounts to my parents. All told, my parents ended up footing a $20,000 bill for around 200 guests, most of whom were family or firefighters with whom my father had worked. My in laws couldn't contribute financially, and that was fine by us and by my parents.
To this day, my husband and I are extremely grateful to my parents for having done that for us, but it is nothing we would have ever expected.