I obviously have no direct say in this. However, I will say that I fully support DW and DD11 to be and do anything they want to. DW is a very powerful and smart woman, literally and figuratively. DD11 is the apple of my eye, so....
Related to these lines, as I've mentioned in other posts all my kids play lacrosse. The girls game is SO different than the boys, it drives me bananas. I don't get it. I feel the girls should have the same rules as the boys. Put pads on them and let them have at it, hitting and all. Yes, for the record I'd be fine with making the rules for the boys like the girls, but the reason I would rather it be the other way is I don't like the rules for the girls.