Kathryn Merteuil
Barden Bella
- Joined
- May 11, 2012
It took a couple months, (at least where he could hear me say it)
Don't fail to tell someone you love them for fear of rejection. Just as the first guy wasn't with the love program and you broke up, well the next one might break up because he thinks you're not with the love program if you fail to tell him out of fear of rejection. You're ready to tell him you love him when it is the truth.
This is my story, too. He told me after about a month and I told him that he didn't and that it was too soon to think so. After another couple of months, I told him the same and we continue to do so after 24 years of marriage and 28 years together.I really don't remember how long it took for me to tell DH I loved him. The first time he told me I laughed at him. It had been a little over a month. I thought it was too soon. We've been together 28 years & married 26 in a couple of months. Thankfully, he didn't walk away at that time or it would have been the biggest mistake of my life. He's never let me forget it.
I totally agree. I know my current relationship isn't on the "love program" (as Cannot_Wait_4Disney called it), it is more the casual but more than friends program.So much depends on the relationship.