TipsyTraveler
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 9, 2014
I used to bartend private parties and the agency I worked with always reiterated "No more than ten minutes early or one minute late." I thought that was a pretty good goal.
Professionally or regarding appointments, I don't feel it's acceptable to be late at all. Meeting friends at a restaurant, I give and take about a ten minute grace period before I consider one late. For a family or friends gathering in the home, I generally don't start noticing someone's absence until 15-20 minutes past the start time.
I used to be one of those people who was early/on time for everything and expected others to be the same way, but I finally had to make a concerted effort to relax those expectations because I spent too much time waiting on other people and getting irritated in the process.
Professionally or regarding appointments, I don't feel it's acceptable to be late at all. Meeting friends at a restaurant, I give and take about a ten minute grace period before I consider one late. For a family or friends gathering in the home, I generally don't start noticing someone's absence until 15-20 minutes past the start time.
I used to be one of those people who was early/on time for everything and expected others to be the same way, but I finally had to make a concerted effort to relax those expectations because I spent too much time waiting on other people and getting irritated in the process.