msmama
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 21, 2009
My son (almost 8) has been using restrooms by himself for a couple of years now. It all started when the line for the ladies room was too long and he had to go NOW. Honestly, it was so easy I wondered why I didn't do it sooner.
A few things that I have learned along the way - if he thinks he might be in the bathroom a little longer than usual, he needs to tell me (nothing like waiting for 10 minutes outside the bathroom unexpectedly - also, I've never seen a man who's been uncomfortable with me going up to the door of the mens room and yelling in to make sure he's okay). We have a place to meet outside the restrooms if he comes out before me. If he goes outside and doesn't see our meeting place, go back inside and make sure there's not another exit (to my knowledge this has never been a problem, but we've discussed it just in case). He does use stalls instead of urinals and I'm pretty sure he's better at washing his hands in public restrooms then he is at home!
Last trip my son was in the bathroom FOREVER!! I was starting to get concerned when he finally came out looking so worried. I asked him what was wrong and he told me that he was in there so long looking for his sunglasses which he must have lost. They were on top of his head.
A few things that I have learned along the way - if he thinks he might be in the bathroom a little longer than usual, he needs to tell me (nothing like waiting for 10 minutes outside the bathroom unexpectedly - also, I've never seen a man who's been uncomfortable with me going up to the door of the mens room and yelling in to make sure he's okay). We have a place to meet outside the restrooms if he comes out before me. If he goes outside and doesn't see our meeting place, go back inside and make sure there's not another exit (to my knowledge this has never been a problem, but we've discussed it just in case). He does use stalls instead of urinals and I'm pretty sure he's better at washing his hands in public restrooms then he is at home!
Last trip my son was in the bathroom FOREVER!! I was starting to get concerned when he finally came out looking so worried. I asked him what was wrong and he told me that he was in there so long looking for his sunglasses which he must have lost. They were on top of his head.