fly girl
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 20, 2012
First, sorry about the family rift. You did the right thing. I’m sorry the rest of the family doesn’t see it as smartly as you do. For goodness sakes, life is hard enough. Finding love and happiness is all that matters, the gender is inconsequential.
Second, if it makes YOU feel better then send it. I wouldn’t do a damn thing for them. But my gut says you really want to because you liked the woman. Then by all means, do it! Jimmy crack corn and I don’t care if they get mad. You are doing it for the right reasons.
If you are still so considerate of them in this difficult time (which is very above and beyond) send it when you know they’ll receive it after the funeral. Then if by off chance they are worked up over you sending condolences — which seems crazy, but hey they sound like they could be — it’ll be after all the chaos of having the funeral.
Second, if it makes YOU feel better then send it. I wouldn’t do a damn thing for them. But my gut says you really want to because you liked the woman. Then by all means, do it! Jimmy crack corn and I don’t care if they get mad. You are doing it for the right reasons.
If you are still so considerate of them in this difficult time (which is very above and beyond) send it when you know they’ll receive it after the funeral. Then if by off chance they are worked up over you sending condolences — which seems crazy, but hey they sound like they could be — it’ll be after all the chaos of having the funeral.