Princess Steph
I want to live in a castle
- Joined
- Jul 22, 2004
My sister-in-law (who is a pathological liar and manipulator) has befriended my best friend of 20 years. My friend and I travel to WDW every year and we have a trip planned for February. I think I might cancel it. My friend, Deb, did not tell me she was hanging out with my SIL, Lisa, because she “knew I’d get mad” but did anyways. Lisa is telling lies about me to Deb to try to drive us apart. Deb says she is sorry and did not mean to hurt me. She is now getting defensive. I think I should talk to Deb to work it out but I’m afraid I’ll say things that will just erode our friendship more. I feel I can’t trust her and I’m not sure of her loyalty, that’s not something a friend wants to hear. Should I just accept that she is friends with Lisa (I can’t stop her) and see how it goes or tell her how I feel and risk saying something to harm our friendship more?