cabanafrau
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 10, 2006
I supposed it depends on how cynical you are. Probably?
There are plenty of instances where somebody gets a wedding invitation out of some sense of obligation, not because they are actually welcome. Mean 'ole Uncle Carl gets an invite because Mom made you send one, even though nobody in the family likes Carl and he's not going to show up anyway.
If you're getting married you're presumably an adult capable of telling mom, no, we're NOT inviting Mean 'ole Uncle Carl -- and he wouldn't enjoy coming anyway because of the music we have planned. Save everybody the aggravation and don't send the invite.