This discussion was on my nightly news last night.
It really made me pause and think.
Here is a link I could find; https://www.telegraph.co.uk/science...uld-be-as-deadly-as-smoking-harvard-universi/
Once your children are out of school and you become empty nesters, I, myself found it very difficult to sustain close friendships. We would do the occasional picnics and suppers after our high school daughters soccer games, we went out with other parents for supper during Prom week, plus a lot of different activities, but it was like more of a whole group setting of friends, that was sort of forced together, yet we all got along, since it was our children's school activities that brought us together.
We can be out at a grocery store or some other public place and I will meet up with some of these friends, but it is never taken to the next level of lets get together, it is more like "how many grandchildren do you have", "yep, we watch our grandchildren".
To be honest, we moved about 20 miles away and built our retirement home and joined a new parish. We have been going for about 2 years to a new church, and not once has anyone come up to us and said, "hi, are you new here? But then again, when I would see new people that used to come to our old parish, I was guilty of never introducing myself to new people.
I see on Facebook, new mothers that look for friendship to get together with other mothers with babies. I wish I could do that, but I feel I would seem so desperate for friendships, and many people who know me on Facebook would wonder what the heck is up with me. I did look into "Meet Up", but many groups that get together are in the larger cities, and not at all around in my area.
Am I wrong, are there others like me, that would just like a nice friendship with other group of ladies, and it is just so hard to find that kind of friendship?
It really made me pause and think.
Here is a link I could find; https://www.telegraph.co.uk/science...uld-be-as-deadly-as-smoking-harvard-universi/
Once your children are out of school and you become empty nesters, I, myself found it very difficult to sustain close friendships. We would do the occasional picnics and suppers after our high school daughters soccer games, we went out with other parents for supper during Prom week, plus a lot of different activities, but it was like more of a whole group setting of friends, that was sort of forced together, yet we all got along, since it was our children's school activities that brought us together.
We can be out at a grocery store or some other public place and I will meet up with some of these friends, but it is never taken to the next level of lets get together, it is more like "how many grandchildren do you have", "yep, we watch our grandchildren".
To be honest, we moved about 20 miles away and built our retirement home and joined a new parish. We have been going for about 2 years to a new church, and not once has anyone come up to us and said, "hi, are you new here? But then again, when I would see new people that used to come to our old parish, I was guilty of never introducing myself to new people.
I see on Facebook, new mothers that look for friendship to get together with other mothers with babies. I wish I could do that, but I feel I would seem so desperate for friendships, and many people who know me on Facebook would wonder what the heck is up with me. I did look into "Meet Up", but many groups that get together are in the larger cities, and not at all around in my area.
Am I wrong, are there others like me, that would just like a nice friendship with other group of ladies, and it is just so hard to find that kind of friendship?