I think you're right, kdzgon. Perhaps it is out of character for me. I certainly didn't want to come accross as offensive, and I tried to lighten it up with the smiley thing. I guess my inner feelings came through.
I do understand different families work differently, and there is no true right or wrong here.
It's just tough for me to understand the other viewpoint. I mean, here we are trying to have kids. My wife is sad about that, as she is approaching the critcal age.
So, looking at it from my perspective I just can't imagine someone taking a Disney vacation and wanting time away from their kids. I think "pool time" were the words used. A Disney run kid's club for a nice adult dinner... no problem at all with that. And a vacation to the Caribbean, or Europe, I can also understand a sitter in those situations. I just have a tough time understanding a sitter for your kids while at Walt Disney World.
Perhaps the inability to understand it is one of my own shortcomings.
Honestly, neither this post nor my others were meant to offend, belittle, or challenge any other posters parenting practices. I'm sure they are doing what's best for their family.
That doesn't mean I understand it, or agree with it.
But than again, I'm confused how anyone can be a Yankees fan either.
I should have gone with my first instinct, and kept my trap shut in this thread..
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