I'm so sorry for your loss, and I totally agree with what you've said. The photo contained in this article illustrates it startlingly https://www.businessinsider.com/why-fentanyl-is-deadlier-than-heroin-in-a-single-photo-2017-8
My aunt learned that my cousin had "tried heroin" and three weeks later, my cousin died from heroin laced with fentanyl. Her friends say she was not an addict, used maybe 3-4 times, and it wasn't an overdose - just bad drugs. Point being is that even if kids are experimenting by dabbling in drugs of any kind, it can go awry very quickly. It can't be taken seriously enough.
My aunt obviously did not have time to intervene, but in retrospect, she would have loved to have a heart to heart with my cousin while being open, level-headed, and non-judgmental. I think if my cousin had felt open about sharing why she was doing what she was doing, she would have been receptive to help and change. Anger, sadness, etc. are normal reactions but it needs to be approached with caution IMO.
I have a good friend who is in his 50s and was prescribed a fetanyl patch by his doc. My friend said he felt like he was going to die so he got rid of it. He has been on prescription pain meds (authorized by his doc) for years and it was just something the doctor thought might help with the pain. My friend said thanks but no thanks. This was shortly before all the headlines about the drug.It's a huge problem that there's no margin for error with fentanyl. For so many only one experience leads to absolute tragedy. I've heard many stories where it's believed the deceased never even realized fentanyl was involved.
My aunt learned that my cousin had "tried heroin" and three weeks later, my cousin died from heroin laced with fentanyl. Her friends say she was not an addict, used maybe 3-4 times, and it wasn't an overdose - just bad drugs. Point being is that even if kids are experimenting by dabbling in drugs of any kind, it can go awry very quickly. It can't be taken seriously enough.
My aunt obviously did not have time to intervene, but in retrospect, she would have loved to have a heart to heart with my cousin while being open, level-headed, and non-judgmental. I think if my cousin had felt open about sharing why she was doing what she was doing, she would have been receptive to help and change. Anger, sadness, etc. are normal reactions but it needs to be approached with caution IMO.
FYI. I was watching a documentary on heroin use. They said it is possible to get hooked the first time you use it. It depends on your tolerance. They said you don't know until you try it. Once you are hooked relapse is about 80% of the users.