Is it really ok to go guilt-free w/o the kiddos? And how do I convince the grandparents of this so I can get them to babysit?
I think you'll have at least 30 ladies who will say yes to that question.
Honestly, it's more then ok. As moms we do so much for everyone in our lives and often push our own "me" time aside. If you keep that up, I guarantee you you'll end up burned out.
It's hard to go away. When I went to WDW on the first ladies only trip I organized, I cried on the way to the airport, I cried on the plane, I cried on my layover......see a pattern here??
But it was something I wanted to do for me. My kids understood. In fact when they found out I was going to WDW with a bunch of ladies from the DIS, they said, "How boring, all you'll probably do is shop the whole time."
Ummm, yeah sure honey.
And I knew they would be fine.
I am glad I went. I made some great friends that I keep in touch with still today (we went in '06). And on this past
Disneyland trip, I met some of the nicest, friendliest, most fun ladies I've met in a long time. I had a blast!! And I was only there for one day.
It took me a long time to decide to take some time for myself. And it's not like I take off all the time. 5 days out of 365 isn't a big deal. And it helps me come back refreshed and ready to be a great mom and wife again.
Now, having said all that, it's a personal decision that everyone needs to make for themselves. I know not everyone can do it. Some people couldn't dream of leaving their kids and taking off to Disneyland, or anywhere. And that's fine too. To each their own.
Maybe you'll go once and decide it's not for you, or maybe you'll decide to do it every year. You never know.
Now as for convincing the grandparents.....hmmm, I don't know! Beg? Plead? Bribery?
Good luck!
(geez, I talk alot!!
But I hoped that helped!)